Consent is not once. Consent is given over and over and over. A dear friend wrote an article about something that really needed to be said, even though it's sad it needed to be said and isn't just known -- sexual consent is not given once on wedding day to last for a lifetime; sexual … Continue reading Idolatry of the penis
My grandfather says he is egalitarian in the church. That is, he believes and practices gender equality in the church. But in marriage, he says, he is complementarian. In marriage, he has a hang up on one word: respect. Egalitarian: term for gender equality used in Christian theology and church practice Complementarian: term for gender … Continue reading Good enough?
I remember the first time I read of Beauty and the Beast, I believe in a Grimm's Fairytale Classics book or something similar. And it was grim. Somehow, though, the story sticks, and the notion of bad becoming good and horrible people changing into handsome princes doesn't fade in a girl's heart, especially as she … Continue reading Beauty and the Beast 2017: a Christian feminist movie review, and Disney finally got it right!
It started when he was 3 months old. Christmas. His grandfather changed his diaper. "Look at that little willie! I'm gonna pinch it off! Pinch it right off!" Papa cooed. It was like some strange game to make the baby laugh, the way grown ups do stupid faces at babies. And I thought, something's uncomfortable. … Continue reading Your chauvinism is showing.